Bereavement Leave Policies

How much time can you take off from your company if you have a death in the family?

Hint: probably not enough.

Organizations offering paid bereavement leave rose to 89% in 2020, but the standard paid time off is only 3 days.

Putting that in perspective, you have:

  • one day to process the initial shock

  • one day to plan for a funeral

  • one day to attend the funeral

In my situation, the company I was at had a standard 3 day bereavement policy. However, you could request 5 days if you had to travel for the funeral.

In the past few years, a handful of companies made headlines by upping the number of bereavement days to 10-20.

Looking back, having an initial 10 days off would have been best. I felt like I flew home quickly after my dad's funeral, leaving a lot of work for my mom.

After those 2 weeks I would have welcomed getting back to a normal routine, but realizing there were still lots of estate tasks to deal with, I could have used another 10 flex days over the next few months. This would have allowed flexibility to spend a morning or afternoon on the phone or dealing with paperwork as it came up.

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